Nesting

Nesting.

I forgot about this phenomenon.

Last time, it involved shopping for groceries for hours until the store closed at midnight. This was an emergency and could not be put off until daylight hours, even though the baby wasn't due for two more months.

This time it's projects. Replacing lighting fixtures. Fixing the fountain pump in the back yard. Putting together the bookcase for the new office. Buying Evan's "big boy bed" and picking out Just. The. Right. Bedding. Painting the room. Painting the guest room. Painting our room.

I didn't want to paint our room. It's been fine for 5 years. I asked Jana what color she wanted. She said she liked the color we have now. I breathed a sigh of relief. Then she finished her sentence by saying she wanted it to be a semi-gloss finish instead of flat. We currently have flat. So apparently the goal is to have it look the same, but feel different. You know, for all those times we feel our walls.

The list is growing. The costs are mounting. I'm getting overwhelmed. I think it's time to get some help. I need another me.

Not a twin, though - someone who's handy. I'm the opposite of handy. I'm footy.

And I cannot wait to meet this new addition to our family.

Oh...I forgot to mention - we're having a baby!


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You'll be feeling the walls when you have to wipe off the food spills, crayon marks, and other various things that kids put on the walls. Semi-gloss is your friend in those cases - flat is your enemy.

Maybe you can just get a spray can of lacquer or shellac or whatever and turn the walls into semi-gloss without repainting? Full-gloss, even.

We have decided that we won't paint the walls until we move. What's the point of having something looking nice when it's just going to scribbled upon or dented with toy cars?
1 reply · active 607 weeks ago
This is why we can't have nice things!
First, congratulations. Second, a baby what? The answer to this second question is critical for you to fully map out the work that needs to be done and buy the supplies that need to be acquired.
2 replies · active 607 weeks ago
Good question! I'll ask Jana...

...ok, I'm back. Turns out it's a baby human. Also, now my head hurts. Thanks, Dan(iel).
I hope you kept the receipts so you can return the first batch of stuff you bought.
Dude! Congrats! I knew it!

Glad you didn't follow the eight year plan that Lisa and I did. No kids. Eight years, one kid. Eight years, next kid.
1 reply · active 607 weeks ago
You like to take your sweet time with things!
Bryan could sympathize with you. I made him paint three rooms, put in another hanging bar in the closet, completely redo a bathroom, tile in another bathroom, new crib. I didn't just grocery shop, I did massive freezer cooking sessions that I was too tired to clean up after. Just go with it and realize that soon the insanity will be replaced with intense exhaustion, so you should be free from home repair for at least six months to a year. Congrats on the new little one by the way. The second one, in our case, was much easier as a baby. I got more sleep after baby than in the weeks leading up to delivery.
3 replies · active 607 weeks ago
Hi Amie! We've heard the first and second are usually opposites. That has us worried. Evan was an easy baby.
Bryan's twin brother has four and the first three were easy. Some people just have easy going babies. We'll just say that's you until it's proven otherwise.
And I hope that day never comes!
Second baby - you've got this nesting and parenting thing down pat.

At some point in the near future you might need to know how to fix drywall (just use your imagination). I know a guy.
1 reply · active 607 weeks ago
I don't look forward to that day.
Congrats from the Holler!!!
1 reply · active 607 weeks ago
Satin paint is better. :) Now you have to repaint it again. Same color. Different kind. Unless of course you keep your wife from reading this.
1 reply · active 606 weeks ago
She doesn't - I'm safe!

A little surprised to have a pastor recommend Satin to me, though...
I FEEL MY WALLS ALL THE TIME.
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Proudsister · 606 weeks ago

Yipee! Can't wait! If you need help, holler!
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